SCC Prompt #168

What does your ordinary day look like if you are in a 24/7 D/s relationship?

Well Sir gets up at 2am to go to the gym and then to work. So I am up giving him his “morning send off”. I ask him if he needs anything else from me and normally he says no and I get to go back to sleep.

Well I normally wake up around 7. Take my medication. I feed the dogs (currently 5), put them back in their crates for an hour so that their stomachs settle. I put dishes in the dishwasher, straighten up the kitchen, and sit and have my coffee and catch up on reading my blogs. If I have a blog to write then I start writing on it, sometimes I get finished and sometimes I have to save it for later. After my one hour is up, its training time. So for 15 minutes each I do some type of training with each dog.

By then its 10 o’clock and its time for me to text Sir and see how his day is going. He always asks me how I feel. Here lately it hasn’t been to good. But today I’m feeling pretty good. We text back and forth while Sir is on his lunch break. Then its time for me to run errands, bank runs, grocery store etc. When I get back then its time to pay attention to some of the laundry. After I get that going its time for lunch for the puppies. Then it’s time for me to clean one room in the house.

I normally pick one room a day to clean and work on it throughout the day.

When it’s time for Sir to come home he calls me on the phone to let me know hes on his way. Now on a perfect day I am waiting for him by the door. Most days I’m fiddling around in the kitchen trying to get dinner ready. Unless he says he wants to eat out that day.

After dinner we usually watch television until about 8 and then its time to go to bed. Sometimes Sir wants to play and we do of course but sometimes hes so tired from work that he just wants to go to bed.

This is all subject to change. So the above is written from a perfect day but as everyone knows our days aren’t perfect. A lot of times some stuff gets in the way of plans and you just have to go with the flow of things.

Do You think your D/s relationship looks vanilla in the public eye?

To some degree yes. I’ve had people look at my collar. And at restaurants the waitress is always a little weirded out when Sir orders for me. But other than that I think we look vanilla in public.

What type of rules or protocols do you have to reinforce your dynamic at the end of the day?

We really don’t have any end of the day protocols. We had thought about me asking permission to sleep in the bed. But we haven’t started doing that yet. I’m sure we will come up with some other things to reinforce our dynamic.


Submissive Coffee Club Prompt #126

This prompt was very interesting so I decided to answer the questions. It’s from the Submissive Coffee Club.


1. If you could only have one element of the lifestyle what would you choose—-the sexual or non sexual?

Well this really is a hard question because I love them both equally but if I HAD to choose, I would choose the non sexual. Yes, sex is great however being able to serve my Sir and making his life easier is far more important than the sexual element.

2. What are your favorite non sexual parts of D/s?

One of my favorite non sexual parts of D/s is giving complete control to Sir. He orders my food at restaurants. I can’t take a bite of food until he has taken his first bite. I think I love the protocols in our D/s relationship.

3. Are you able to clearly differentiate between the two parts, or does one flow into the other?

I think they flow into each other because we are doing D/s 24/7 I believe that they do mix together.