New Rule!

So, Sir has given me a new rule, since finding out that I have been paying $80 a month for a gym membership that I haven’t used in almost a year. I am now to go to the gym 3 days a week and workout for at least an hour.

I am glad that Sir made this a rule. I love my gym, I had just forgotten that I was still paying for it. My gym is great, its very clean which is good for me because I am a big germaphobe. They have a million classes that you can take, so I can go do cardio for 30 minutes and then take a nice Yoga or Pilates class or a Hip Hop Dance class. Its pretty awesome. They have a nice walking track upstairs. They have a nice little Cafe’ where you can buy healthy snacks and shakes. They even have healthy Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinners and plenty of fruit. Then it also has a Spa which offers discounted prices to members you can get a Massage, waxes, manicures, and pedicures, etc. They are always having special workshops on nutrition and stuff. Like I said its a fabulous gym.

I’m excited to be going back and getting healthy again. Cause lets face it the past year it has not been healthy at all. Eating Oreos and McDonald’s all the time is not a way to live. Even though Sir doesn’t have a problem with my weight. I do. And I want to look my best for Sir and right now I don’t feel like i’m at my best. I want to look like I did at our wedding. I think I was a nice size then, maybe not as skinny. I think this will also help my Lupus and Fibromyalgia for me to be a little more active with my joints.

So I need to fit going to the gym into my schedule. I’m thinking Monday, Wednesday, Fridays early in the morning like 8:00-9:00a and depending on the classes that I want to take weekly. I’m really excited and can’t wait. I am going to start tomorrow. Woohoo! All these new things happening, Dog training business, going back to the gym,. WooHoo.

The Rules


Every D/s relationship has rules that the submissive must follow. Primarily the Dominant makes these rules.

So we went over the rules (and there are a lot of them) last night. I am fairly comfortable with them all. If you want to check them out I posted them on a separate page. You can get to that page by looking at the top of this page. I am a little nervous about how Sir is going to handle being a Dominant. He is confident in himself and I am confident in him as well. So far he has done very well in making decisions.

I have a new respect for him that I did not have before we introduced BDSM in our lives. At this point, I may be speaking early, but I think BDSM is going to save our marriage. I think it makes Sir feel like the man in the relationship where as before he did not feel this way because I was making all the decisions, I was paying the bills. I wasn’t really asking for any input from him. Now its going to be totally different, he is in complete control of me.

Our D/s relationship is a TPE (total power exchange) meaning I am giving complete control to Sir. It is a lot of responsibility but I know that he can handle it. I trust him to make the right decisions for us. Sure at first we are going to have bumps in the road but I believe this is the right path for us.