Well, it’s going to be a doozie of a week for Ellie. Let’s go over Ellie’s busy schedule…..
Monday- had therapy appointment which i had to take puppy to because it was followed by training class, did some training with other dogs, then had another training class with puppy that wore me the hell out. I was the youngest person in the class but my stamina is terrible. I swear I heeled 5 miles with the puppy.
Tuesday- had to do thirty-one stuff. Mail out my hostess packets and get my junk ready for my March parties. Which had taken most of the day. And study for test on Thursday.
Wednesday- training class with Presco at 8:30 at night, will be working with him throughout the day so he does embarrass me in class, LOL. Studying for Excel test on Thursday. Need to also pick out what I am going to wear to take my test. This is all very important things lol.
Thursday- Hair appt at 9:00AM, Excel test at 1:30PM (please wish me luck!), Dr appt at 2:30PM.
Friday- Get Ready for Beat My Valentine!!! Woohoo!
I’m so excited about this weekend, its like I get to have a mini vacation after all the stuff I did. I hope to learn some new kinky tricks and hopefully Sir will play with me both nights while we are gone. I haven’t decided which collar I am going to wear or even what outfits I’m going to wear. I guess that’s why I have all day Friday to get it done. Two days dog-free woohoo. So Excited! I think Sir secretly is excited too but he’s not showing it. He has to be the cool, calm, Dom…LOL.
Recently I made a post about me and Sir going to a play party where there was actual sex involved. I thought this needed a separate post because my feelings were all over the place about it.
The next day I had a sub lunch and I brought up the topic. Most of us didn’t agree with having sex at play parties.
Personally I thought I would be okay with it. I thought that it’d be interesting to watch. But when it actually happened, I was very much weirded out by it. So we just continued on talking to people and pretty much ignored the scene that was taking place. Another thought I had about the whole thing is who would want to use the equipment after that scene. I know there is cleaner but I’m a major germaphobe, but that’s just me.
Another thing that was different was the Fuck Saw, yeah he used condoms on it with every person who tried it. But I don’t know. The experience would’ve been pretty awesome, but would I catch syphilis some how? or am I being pretty silly? Probably am knowing me. But hey that’s my opinion. But with all this said it’s not going to stop me from going to play parties and socializing. Just thought I’d write about my thoughts on the new rules. Now not all play parties is sex allowed. Just certain ones.
Well we finally lasted a whole night at a play party. LOL. I got so many compliments on my corset last night, which was awesome. All the usual stuff was the there, spanking horses, St.Andrews Crosses, places to do rope and suspensions.There was a new station though which was extremely interesting. Sir Magic the host brought his fuck saw. It was a modified handsaw that he had made and put a twelve inch dildo on the end of it. A LOT of people signed up to be used with it and it looked like they were having a very enjoyable experience. It was all very interesting to watch. I would like to experience it once I get up enough courage to go bottomless in front of everyone, LOL.
Me and Sir agreed that it made us want to play real badly but we still aren’t ready to play in public.
This was the first party that we attended that sex was actually allowed and performed. A Dom and his sub were on the spanking horse going at it. So that was interesting.
Now on to the social part of the evening. We met a very intoxicated older lady, who randomly just kissed Sir on the lips. We wasn’t expecting it at all. She was very intoxicated. She kept asking everyone to flog her and most people did. See, I disagree with that. If someone is so fucked up, they have no business playing or doing a scene. She asked Sir and he politely declined. As if she wasn’t drunk enough she took two more shots of my Fireball whiskey. I was like ‘oh shit, we are gonna find her passed out somewhere later’. But she was good the whole night. She was still there when we left at 2:30a. The party lasted until 3. We also met some new people as usual and hung out with some people we already knew. Sir ran into a co-worker and they got to talking about different stuff work and kink related. He was really nice. We also talked to a girl that is rope top that we know, we might have her tie me up to see if I like being a rope bottom. We plan on going to rope class on Tuesday this week since Sir is on vacation.
We talked a lot with the host, Sir Magic. He’s a very nice guy and a superb host, he makes sure he makes his rounds talking to everyone and always making you smile and laugh. We will probably always go to his parties they are always great. He plays really good music too a mixture of all different genres.
Since our normal bedtime is like 9:30, we were extremely tired by 2:30a, so we decided to go ahead and call it a night. Most people had left and we were just sitting on the couch talking to a few people.
I actually slept really good last night. Probably the best I’ve slept in a while.
Corsets are my thing now. I love them. I have a black one, pink one, red one, and now a teal one. I can’t wait to wear it tonight to the play party. The Dominant that is hosting it is from out of town and he throws a really nice play party. We went to one a couple of months ago that he hosted and it was great. We are extremely excited to be going. Again we won’t play, we will observe and mingle with the community. We just aren’t ready for public play. .
So I asked Sir if I could go shopping for a new corset or Halloween costume to wear tonight. He said it was alright. That’s when I found this cool teal corset that was just my size. I took that as a sign, lol. There aren’t a lot of corset options at this store for full figured women such as myself. So when I see something that fits me I get excited lol. I just got some teal eye shadow and eye liner from Bare Minerals last month so that will go well with the outfit. We always have a blast at these things I really can’t wait. Now that we know more people in the community hopefully there will be less standing around looking awkward LOL. So my nails are done, hair is done, and now we are relaxing watching scary movies until it’s time to go!
So, Saturday we attended our second play party. It was a lot of fun. Very different from the last. A guy from out of town hosted it. He played better music and was very sociable with us. There were more people at this play party. I wore my new pink corset and some heels that was way too much, I had to take them off soon after I got there, a little embarrassing. But perfectly alright. There were also more play stations then at the first one. We watched the spanking horse in use, two people use the St.Andrews cross. and all kinds of rope rigging. We are hopefully attending our first rope class tomorrow night, if Sir is feeling better.
There were so many different people there it was amazing. I am always in awe when we go to these things. Everyone is so welcoming and friendly. We definitely dig the crowd. We haven’t gotten enough courage yet to really do a full scene yet. I know we will get there eventually. I would probably like our first scene to be on the St Andrews Cross. Doing some flogging, crop work. But of course that is for Sir to decide.
We are starting to get more involved in the community we plan on starting to attend Rope class on Tuesday nights, and Humpday Coffee on Wednesday nights. Its kind of like this group is one big family and they have a lot of events that happen throughout the month. We went to our first Humpday Coffee last week and it was so much fun, we met so many nice people. It was at the Homemade Pie and Ice Cream Kitchen. Which had amazing food. So it was good food and good conversation. I think I might have even gotten a couple of Thirty-One customers.