- When bringing Sir something I will wait until Sir says “Thank You” before leaving.
- I will inform Sir if I fail to meet an expectation and will explain why I am failing to meet the expectation
- I will call or text Sir if I have to deviate from set agenda
- I will keep the home clean
- I will follow a daily list of what I am supposed to do in order as listed and practice my mindfulness while doing it
- I will continue to improve on my cooking skills
- I will be gracious and smile at all times
- I will always clean up after myself and Sir
- I am always in submission to Sir whether he is present or not.
- I will always ask permission if I can hang out with my friends.
- I will send a “good morning” text to let Sir know she is awake and to remind him of plans for the day.
- I will let Sir know whenever I leave the house.
- I will not pick up my phone and answer it when Sir is talking to me.
- I will ask permission to speak freely when I believe Sir is making a wrong choice.
- I will always address Dominant as “Sir”. And keep my eyes respectfully lowered.
- If I am concerned that I will deviate from an expectation I am to inform Sir at once. Preferably before.
- I will except all punishments and corrections
- I understand that all punishments are for my own good so I can continue to grow and improve
- I will text Sir with requests and if no reply is forthcoming I may send a second text after 5 minutes have passed and then wait no less than 20 minutes before assuming permission is granted.
- I will ask permission to make purchases that I or Sir do not “Need”.
- I will always come to Sir with any concerns that I have. I will not be afraid to talk to him.
- I will respond to text messages from Sir in a reasonable amount of time or explain why it took so long to answer.
- When out at a restaurant I will not talk to the waiter. Sir will order for me
- I will wait until Sir has taken the first bite of his food.
- When around Vanilla friends I may address Sir by his name.
- I will always walk behind Sir
- I will always wear my wedding band when leaving the house
- Sir trusts me to make tasteful choices in outfits for the day
- When in the house I will wear eyelet dresses that Sir has approved
- I will wake up when Sir wakes up and give him a “Send off” before going to work.
- Will have sex when Sir sees fit, unless health prevents me from doing so. I will let Sir know when I am not feeling well enough for sexual activity.
- I will always swallow Sirs seed unless his seed goes into pussy or anus.
- I will never touch myself in a gratifying way or pleasing way outside of Sir’s presence or unless I have obtained his consent.
- I will never touch a toy unless instructed to do so
- I will remember my purpose is to serve Sir
- I will offer my body for use by Sir every night
- I will always thank Sir after play, or sexual use
- I must be waxed (pubic hair, under arms, legs) at all times. (Every 5 weeks)
- I will get Manicure and Pedicure every 4 weeks
- I will maintain weekly hair appointments
- I will wear makeup if I choose to do so
- If I choose to diet, I will let Sir know so he can keep me accountable
- I will take medication everyday
- I will go to the Gym 2 times a week and workout for at least 1 hour.
- I will always thank Sir cheerfully
- I will apologize whenever I have erred
- I will never hide my tears from Sir
- I will not borrow trouble and will not worry about things that are out of my control
- I will keep the household in presentable order
- I will keep dirty laundry to a minimum
- I will fold laundry (without complaint)
- I will wash dishes everyday (Dishwasher)
- I will feed dogs and do their training every morning
- I will cook meals at least 3 times a week