About Me

I am a 32 year old submissive in a TPE with my husband/Dominant. I have been married to my Sir for 7 years. We have been together for 9 years. So a little bit about myself: I am a former Police Officer. I had to leave the force for health reasons. I have now taken a civilian job with the police department that allows me to continue to use my Criminal Justice Degree. In 2011, I was diagnosed with the autoimmune disease Lupus. I will blog about that from time to time as it will probably figure into our lifestyle. I am a big horror movie fan. You normally can find me at home training our dogs or at the dog training center. I show our Boxers in AKC Obedience and now trying IPO stuff with my newest puppy Capone. Showing dogs will keep me very busy in my retirement and I plan on eventually opening a Boarding Kennel/Doggy daycare for Dogs only (sorry I don’t really like cats).

Me and Sir met in January 2007, on a blind date that a mutual friend set us up on. I didn’t know about him at first because he really didn’t talk too much. I thought he didn’t like me and that was the reason he wasn’t talking. Little did I know he was just quiet in nature. But his blue eyes were mesmerizing.  In 2008 we bought a house together and got engaged. We were married June 13, 2009. (the same year I became a police officer).

In May 2015 me and Sir decided to add a little kink to our marriage. So we are going to live a 24/7 D/s relationship. We are also an interracial couple. We live in our quaint little house with our three Boxer dogs Heidi, Capone, and Presco. In my spare time I show these dogs in Conformation and AKC Obedience. I also show in international shows. I’ve been showing our dogs for 5 years now. I love the bond that you get with your dog while working as a team. I will occasionally post about them as well, seeing as we don’t have kids. Pictured below (Capone is the Reverse Brindle, Heidi is the Fawn at the top right, and Presco is the Fawn at the top bottom).


I plan to blog at least three times a week on my experiences being a new submissive. It’s not a how-to blog its just simply my experience thus far.

So if you need to contact me you can email me at underlockandkey84@gmail.com

5 thoughts on “About Me

  1. I enjoy your blog. Good luck with the new job. Your dogs are so beautiful. We have a Boxer we rescued last year… Spencer Tracy. He is Fawn and a big bratty baby but we adore him. he was found by the side of the road with a broken leg and went through multiple surgeries and therapy. He is great now with just a small limp from time to time. Your wedding cake, dress, and bouquet were stunning.


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