So a blog that I follow (Chasing Me, Chasing You) has come up with a 30 days to define your submission. 30 questions to answer to help you define your submission. I have decided to answer the questions here on my blog as well.
Day 1: Do you view your submission as: Taken in hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, owner/pet, DD/lg; or some other description or combination? If you do not use a label, why?
I view my submission strictly as Dominant/submissive. I would like to add a little more domestic discipline into the relationship.We are taking things slow..a little too slow for my liking but we have to go at Sir’s pace and I understand that.
I know a lot of people don’t like labels but I do for some reason. Maybe its my obsession with structure I feel safe and secure knowing exactly what dynamic we are. I understand the people that don’t like labels and nothing against them it just isn’t for me.
So glad you are doing this too. Hopefully that will keep me motivated to keep plugging through them. I like labels too. I think it’s the librarian side of me. I want everything defined and clearly explained to fit into it’s proper place. Sadly, it rarely works out for me like that.
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Reblogged this on dave94015 and commented:
How would you define your #bdsm relationship? Do you need labels? Or is it determined by the moment?
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Labels are a good way to start thinking about your relationship…but feel free to take it in whatever direction you both want to.
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