“It takes a strong woman to submit,”…

So I’ve been off work sick, my Lupus is acting up. I will be off for the next week trying to get my health under control so I can go back to work. So I’ve been trying to tend to the house and get used to my new role as submissive. Its been a little harder than I thought it would be, but I will soon get used to all the changes. I filled out a BDSM Checklist for Sir so he would know a little more about me sexually. I’m getting a little better at calling Sir, Sir and not his name. He’s been very lenient with me on that.

But earlier today I had a strange feeling come across me and I started questioning myself. Can I really do this? Can he do this? Are we really going to be able to do this? Among other things. It only lasted for about an hour but that hour seemed like 5 hours. I had to keep reassuring myself that we both can do this, that we both want to do this. I think the problem with me is I’m a perfectionist, but I know that we will make mistakes along the way and that every D/s relationship is different and that there is no one way to do things.

Last night on TLC I watched a special they were showing entitled “Submissive Wives Guide to Marriage”, it was about women who have chosen to be submissive to their husbands. They really didn’t talk about wither or not they have Kink in their relationships but the concept seems to be a lot like a D/s relationship minus the calling their husband Master or Sir. What kind of shocked me one of the women said “It takes a strong woman to submit, a weak woman would complain and moan about,” it really stuck with me and while I was asking myself all those questions this morning this woman’s voice came in my head and I was like “I am a strong woman, I can do this, I can be a submissive to my husband because I love him and appreciate him so much,” it was that moment that all the unsure feelings just kind of left me.

SUBJECT CHANGE: I don’t know if what I am writing is interesting or not but I’ve seen that I’ve gotten 6 followers which makes me very excited and I want to thank you guys that are following me. I appreciate you more than you know.

3 thoughts on ““It takes a strong woman to submit,”…

  1. This was a great post ! I enjoy reading what your thoughts on the relationship you have and sharing that with us. Keep it up 🙂 I can’t wait to read more

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  2. Every D/s relationship is different. For Sir and I, we started using our roles in the bedroom only. It was HOT, HOT, HOT! As time has gone on, I have found myself feeling and acting more submissive to him outside the bedroom. However, when it comes right down to the core of our relationship, we are total equals, partners and best friends first. The submission has come from knowing that fact. Don’t force things. You will both need to feel your way through this. I think it is as difficult to assume the role of having all the power as it is to submit yourself to someone else’s will. TALK, TALK, TALK! Express your feelings, concerns, likes and dislikes to each other completely and often. If you ever have any concerns or questions that I could help with, please feel free to contact me at my blog missameliaandsir. I look forward to watching you grow in your new role.

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